Tuesday, December 18, 2012

How to hire a DJ

Most people have no experience hiring a DJ. It can be a scary and unsettling experience–after all, the photographer can show you pictures, the caterer lets you sample the food, and you can see and physically touch the venues you visit. So how do you hire a DJ? Sure, we can show you a performance in pictures, in short YouTube clips or give you a presentation on a laptop, but it’s not the same. You know it and we know it.  One would suppose the best way to see our work would be to go to a wedding where we were performing, and some DJs will let you do that, though personally we are against the idea–would you want some strange couple(s) wandering into your reception uninvited?  Even if you gave the DJ permission, you still don’t know how this particular couple will behave.  Will the open bar be a temptation, keeping them there well after they’ve worn out their welcome?  There are too many variables to this scenario that we are not comfortable with.  You have hired us to be your DJ, not to try and win over prospective clients at your expense.

So how, then, do you decide on a DJ? Referrals are a great way to start. A good portion of the events we do are from referrals of past clients. We booked 25 weddings in 2012 that were from word of mouth alone. What if you don’t know anyone that’s used a DJ or everyone you know has had bad experiences with theirs?  We'll do our best to help you answer that question. (Disclaimer: We are obviously biased towards Locomotion DJ Productions, but by no means am asking you to book us in this article we are doing our best to keep this from being a self-serving piece.  We are just trying to help. Do your research!)

Online reviews are a good way to see what others have said and there are a ton of review sites out there–Wedding Wire, The Knot, Google, the list goes on, but with anything you read on the internet take some reviews with a grain of salt.  It is incredibly easy for an unscrupulous DJ (or any vendor, really) to leave fake reviews–both positive AND negative (just a little tidbit that Locomotion DJ Productions does NOT practice this deceiving act) The vast majority of what you read are real reviews, but again just be careful some may not be 100% truthful.  The wedding industry is incredibly competitive and unfortunately some will go out of their way to inflate reviews or discredit others.

That being said and considering there are a ton of DJs in New England, here’s where you should start.
First, find a handful that fit into your budget. Inexpensive doesn’t necessarily mean bad, nor does expensive necessarily mean good. Price isn’t always an indicator of talent or quality, but it can definitely be an indicator of the amount of equipment–if you need custom monogram lights, uplighting, photobooths, etc. expect to pay more.  Otherwise price is more arbitrary than one would think–there is no set price for DJ services and you’ll see that prices vary wildly between us.  Some, especially higher-priced DJs are willing to negotiate as well–don’t be afraid to ask.  We love what we do and would rather work with 60 different couples a year and charge a reasonable rate of than charge an overpriced rate and only work with 30.  We love doing weddings–every couple, every venue and every weekend is different for us, and we are not discounting those that charge more than us–but be cautious that adding the word "wedding" inflates the price for many vendors–sometimes justifiably, sometimes not.

One thing to consider with a company that is charging a much higher rate than some. Do they have company vehicles, a fancy office, etc.? You my friend are helping pay for that. Locomotion DJ Productions has a home based office keeping our overhead quite low. When we show up at your wedding or other special event we will put on a quality event just like the big companies. Our money is invested in our equipment, music, and your special occasion.

Now that you’ve narrowed down your search a bit, it’s time to contact the DJs companies you like.  Keep in mind the most important part of a DJ company is the DJ itself.  It it imperative that you meet the DJ that is going to perform at your wedding before you book the company. There are two types of DJ companies out there, the single operators and the multi-ops–meaning they have a staff of DJs.  Technically we have seven DJs that work for us so we fall into the latter category.  Some multi-ops are so large that they have many offices in many different cities.  The problem with many of these companies is that they will have you meet with the owner or local sales rep, he’ll give you a great sales pitch and then you’ll get any DJ they have available for your wedding without you actually ever meeting the DJ prior to your special day.  Even if you get lucky and get to meet him close to the wedding, there’s no turning back if you don’t like him. You’ve already signed a contract. Think about this–you’ve met your photographer in person. You’ve met your officiant, your planner, etc. etc.–why would you trust your entertainment in the hands of a person that you’ve never met? We never let a couple book us without meeting their DJ, or at least having a phone/email conversation. You are hiring a DJ company and part of that hiring process is making sure you and your DJ mesh well.

Very closely tied to DJ personality is style.  The DJ stereotype is of the guy with the cheesy radio voice (think Ted Williams, the homeless guy with the “golden voice”) who plays the macarena, chicken dance and polkas. He brings props like inflatable sombreros, and talks way too much on the mic.  There are many DJs that subscribe to this formula, and that’s fine, but make sure that’s what you want.  We live by the saying “it’s your wedding, not our show.”  Most couples that we meet are looking for a low key DJ that is willing to act as an MC but only make announcements when necessary (like intros, first dances, etc) and keeps the cheesy stuff at home. Make sure that the DJ you choose is of the same mindset as you are.  Locomotion, as a DJ, prefer to let the music we play keep the party going.

Speaking of music, there are a few important things to ask.  First, do they have or are they willing to get all of the music you want prior to your event?  We'll be the first to admit that despite having almost 100,000 songs we still get stumped from time to time.  That’s why we ask for client access forms to be filled out 30 days in advance.  It gives us the time to find the music you want (and we view it as a challenge!)  Most DJs however don’t have nearly as much music as we do, and that’s perfectly fine.  You honestly don’t need anywhere near that much, but you do need to make sure that they have what you want for your event.  We know of a DJ in Boston that only has a handful of country songs and isn’t willing to get any more.  He’s not a country fan and refuses to play country.  As professionals, we shouldn’t allow our personal tastes to interject, but it obviously happens. Ask.

Also ask about guest requests.  Assuming you are ok with guest requests your DJ should be as well, provided they stay within the parameters of your Do-Not-Play list (also something you should ask about.) We'll be the first to admit that occasionally guests will requests songs that aren’t necessarily appropriate for a wedding.  That’s why we use professional discretion.

Advertising, some DJ's will display giant banners advertising their service ruining the beautiful ambiance you worked so hard to create.  Others will setup banners in hallways or foyers.  We personally put a business card holder with a few cards next to our system.  Simple and tasteful.  If a DJ does a good job referrals will automatically come–they don’t need to put up a billboard at your event.

When talking about the DJ’s setup, make sure you are comfortable with the footprint they are going to take up at your event.  Depending on equipment a DJ can use a very small space or a very large space.  The most common complaint we hear is about lighting trusses. Basically these are the very large black lighting trusses that span the DJ’s 6-8 foot table and take up a ton of space. They are also very conspicuous. While they are very functional and when used correctly can hold a ton of lights they aren’t always necessary. Our DJ's only use one lighting tripod that sits either behind us or behind a speaker and takes up very little space and is very inconspicuous. The downfall is that if you are looking for a blow-your-mind light show this type of setup won’t deliver. It will most certainly fill a dance floor, but it can only hold so many lights. We think it is a nice balance between classy and club, but again it’s all about what you want for your event.

When talking about the footprint, ask if the DJ is familiar with your venue.  Just because a DJ hasn’t been there doesn’t mean you shouldn’t book him but it DOES mean he should be willing to check out the facilities before the event either online or in-person. With technology we are finding many websites that will give you a virtual tour of the venue. If a DJ isn’t intimately familiar with your choice of venue he should be willing to talk with the venue about setup, sound coverage and logistics (like load-in and out).  With the literally hundreds of venues in New England there is a chance that a DJ hasn’t been to your venue–again, that’s not a negative against him but unwillingness to discuss the logistics of the venue is.

Most venues also require that your DJ carries insurance, though only a few right now require the DJ to prove it.  The DJ should be able to provide you with proof of insurance.  The average policy is $1,000,000 per occurrence.  Though we've never had to use ours, there’s been a few events where our heart skipped a beat as little kids running around came dangerously close to our speakers when we had our back turned taking a request from a guest.  God forbid a 65 pound speaker 6 feet in the air were to topple on someone after they bumped into a tripod.  A good DJ will take precautions and locate equipment (especially tripod legs) out of the way of traffic but accidents do happen.  Make sure they are insured.

Finally make sure that your DJ is comfortable acting as a day-of coordinator.  You may have a planner or your venue may offer day-of service, but ultimately the flow of events is in the hands of the DJ.  We are the ones with the microphone and music.  The DJ should have a timeline worked out with you or your planner well in advance of your event.  The way we like to do it is to have a general timeline (like cocktail hour is from 6-7 and dinner 7-8) with a specific order of events.  Some couples (or venues) will have a timeline down to the minute for each event e.g. cake cutting at 9:08 PM.  we’ve never, in the hundreds of weddings we’ve done, seen one go exactly on time.  Rather, we like to know that the cake cutting will be after salad or dinner, followed by parent dances etc.  So if dinner is until 8 the cake cutting will be somewhere around then depending on factors like if guests are finished eating, if the bride and groom would like to mingle for a bit, etc.  

However, there is fine line between sticking to a schedule to the minute and a laissez faire approach.  If dinner finishes at 8 and the bride and groom only have two more tables of guests to speak to (out of 20) the DJ should let them finish, but if they’ve only spoken to two out of twenty tables by 8 then the DJ should take a different approach.  Make sure your DJ clarifies how he handles timelines and order of events.  Every DJ is different and no specific approach is perfect but make sure you are both on the same page.

Wedding Freebies You DON'T Want

While the idea of getting a super-pricy wedding element for free sounds fabulous, some wedding freebies are to be avoided at all costs: unwise 'cheap-outs' usually turn into wedding disasters. Like Uncle Charlie, who promised to shoot your wedding video for nothing, then didn't get any footage of your First Dance because he was outside talking on his cell. Or Aunt Sally's homemade wedding cake that melted and crashed to the ballroom floor because she didn't know to put supports inside it. Or Grandma slaving over a hot stove during your cocktail party, a sweaty mess with burns on her hands...and still not churning out pigs in blankets fast enough for your crowd.

With the average wedding cost soaring over $20,000 these days, every bride out there is looking for ways to save on her wedding budget, while still having the perfect dream day. And, scarily, there are some brides out there who go way too far with the price-cutting, inviting catastrophes with the ultra-regrettable theory "If it's free, it's for me."

But free is a dangerous game when it comes to your wedding. There are just some things you should never try to get for a big, fat $0 in your wedding budget spreadsheet. Because the adage is true: you really do get what you pay for. And it gets worse: some freebies with $0 attached lead to huge expenses when you have to undo the disaster, if not utter heartbreak when your day is ruined.
Here are eight wedding freebies to avoid:

1. Free Photos and Video: Pro photographers and videographers have top-quality equipment and editing prowess, and they know how to be everywhere during your wedding, capturing every magical moment. Uncle Charlie isn't trained in the art of wedding photography and video and is likely to be at the bar. You don't want to end up with 75 photos because Uncle Steve thought that was plenty, or all of your ceremony photos gone because he messed up his upload. You won't miss any important footage or photos with a pro on your side.

2. Free Catering: Pro caterers know how to create a menu that pleases all of your guests, and they have the best suppliers for top-quality ingredients. They know how to perfectly time their food prep so that the filet mignon is pink in the middle, and your phyllo cup apps come out hot and tasty -- not charred or cold. Grandma shouldn't have to play "Top Chef" for your wedding, and you definitely don't want to have the food run out a half hour into your cocktail party. An amateur could food-poison everyone, and create that 'where's the food?' nightmare during your celebration. The artistry, timing and skills of a caterer are all-important now.

3. Free Wedding Coordination: If you have a friend who's planned her own wedding, that doesn't make her a trained professional. Accepting her offer to plan your wedding for her 'portfolio' (since she now wants to be a wedding planner) is like having someone who once cut their own hair cut yours the day before your wedding. Event planning takes a lot of expertise, and the greatest wedding coordinators know all the best vendors, sites and suppliers in town. They can lead you to the best and away from the worst. So don't be someone's practice wedding. Stick with a pro.

4. Free Wedding Gown Alterations: I don't mean the free alterations offered at your gown boutique. I mean your aunt's offer to alter your gown, since she makes her kids' clothing. Freebie alterations just don't work, since the fabric of most gowns is slippery and challenging, best left to expert hands. Freebie jobs leave you with fallen hems, split seams, and bulges in your dress that guests will think are bulges in your body.

5. Free Beauty Treatments: The Kardashian sisters might wax each other, but waxing, bleaching, self-tanning, facials and other beauty treatments conducted by a friend -- to save money -- will almost surely send you right to a salon for an expensive fix, as well as ripped skin in the worst places, breakouts, streaky tans and other disasters, especially bad if it's just days before your big day.

6. Free Entertainment: Let your brother's garage band stay in the garage. Only trained and experienced deejays and bands know how to read a crowd to adjust their playlist and keep the dance floor packed. They also have top technology with backup equipment to prevent any potential problems with the music.

7. Free Wedding Cake: Don't wind up with a messy, gloppy-sided nightmare that looks like a teen made it in Home Ec. Hot days pose softening challenges for cakes, and tall cakes need the proper dowel-inserted support...not to mention a safe and experienced ride to your wedding site. Pro bakers can work magic even on a budget cake, and get it to you in perfect condition.

8. Free Anything From a Bridal Show Drawing: Without checking the company out fully first, that is. Some truly excellent professionals display at bridal shows and expos, offering free photography packages, free tuxes, free entertainment, and more for big-ticket wins if your ticket is drawn. But some beginners or shady types may be there, too. Never accept a free anything, no matter how big a value placed on it, without investigating the company, meeting with the owners in their shop, viewing their products, and -- important! -- asking your other vendors if they know that company and trust them. Those free tuxes could be 10 years old, frayed, over-rented, ill-fitting and made from crappy fabric. So treat that win as an invitation to check the company out thoroughly before you sign anything. You can always throw out that freebie voucher and avoid a wedding nightmare.

So where do good wedding freebies come from? Quality pros include terrific ones in their wedding packages, and top wedding coordinators and floral designers often have cases of pretty votives and lanterns in their store rooms. They're all too happy to give them to you, when they like you. So hiring vendors is the best way to score some great freebies, and putting your wedding into experienced, accredited hands is beyond priceless. Other freebies can be décor items borrowed from recently-married friends, or found for the asking at your wedding site (like outdoor couches and tables, or bistro tables, candelabras, and more.)

Make it your philosophy to score smart, disaster-free freebies, and you'll find lots of little $0s in your wedding budget adding up to a surprisingly and delightfully large amount, helping you achieve your dream wedding for far less than expected.

What a great wedding DJ will do for you!

Before a great Wedding DJ plays the first song, they ask questions, and do lots of listening.
When a great Wedding DJ meets with a future bride and groom, they like to get an idea of what they are all about.  Get to know their likes, and more importantly their dislikes.  The great Wedding DJ has them paint a mental picture of what they imagine their wedding day to be like, so that the DJ can do their part in making that vision come true.  Naturally, the DJ coordinates all of the formalities, develops a time line (agenda) with the couple and around their courses at their reception and is as much of a resource to them as possible.

The great Wedding DJ talks to the wedding client about music.  Ninety five percent of the time the bride and groom give the DJ a virtual green light simply because they have a music conversation, and they know the DJ understands what they want.  A great Wedding DJ has a broad enough knowledge of music that the client feels comfortable in knowing that the DJ "gets it."  Today, with music so readily available there is very little chance of not being able to find that special request.  The wedding couple get to have whatever they want.

And the DJ still hasn’t played that first song yet…

When a great Wedding DJ arrives at the event they have their t’s crossed and their i’s dotted.  They know all of the elements and details that are important to the bride and groom and what is expected to happen and when.  The DJ then begins to coordinate with the caterer making sure to review the time line, with the photographer and videographer to make sure they are included in the communication loop.

And then, as the guests begin to arrive, the great DJ plays the first song… and then the next, and then the next after that.

For the great DJ, the ‘DJing’ is the easy part.

The success of an event is all in the pre-planning.

It’s your day.

Wedding Day Transportation

It is important to consider transportation for you bridal party on your wedding day. From traveling to and from venues and making various pit stops for photos, it will be much easier on everyone to travel together. There are a wide variety of vehicles that are commonly considered for wedding day transportation. You can narrow down the right choice for you by counting how many people need to be in tow. Below you will find a list of vehicles and their common capacity.

You may also want to consider transportation for your guests to and from a local hotel. It will certainly ensure the safety of your guests on their way back to the hotel.
  •      Bus- seats 45-60 guests
  •      Double-decker bus- seats 65
  •      Limo bus, limo coach, or party bus- seats 18-28
  •      Limousine- seats 6
  •      Lincoln town car, luxury sedan- seats 2 to 4
  •      Passenger shuttle- seats 15 to 33
  •      Stretch Hummer, Lincoln Navigator, Cadillac Escalade- seats 12-14
  •      Stretch limousine- seats 12 to 14
  •      SUV- seats 5 to 7
  •      Trolley- seats 22 to 30
  •      Van- seats 12 to 15

Before signing an agreement for transportation, view the company’s fleet to make sure you are completely satisfied with the upkeep and presentation of the vehicle you will be using on your wedding day.

Should Guests be allowed to request music?

This is something that we discuss with every bride and groom. I personally believe that your guests should be allowed to make requests, but this is your event and we will always respect your decision. I think when your guests are able to make requests it does set a level of interaction between your guests and your DJ.You want your guests to feel that they can approach your DJ, and that he/she is just not a fixture in the corner.

Hiring a professional DJ he/she will know what is appropriate to play and when. The professional DJ will also be considerate of what you have asked them to play and not play. We hear many times where someone will come and say "oh please play insert cheesy song title here, it's Jenn's favorite song". My response is really? That's when we'll approach you and ask. We are never going to take the word of a guest that has had one too many cocktails lol.

A great way to also have your guests interact with us is to provide them with "guest access" this is an area of our online wedding planning tool that you are given when you book with Locomotion DJ Productions. The guest area will allow whoever you give access to the freedom to request music prior to your wedding. The great thing about this is you have veto power over the list! This list is due 30 days before your wedding where you can review it with your DJ.

We are finding some brides and grooms who have wedding websites where they'll share guest access, or maybe within your wedding invitations.

We hope that this has given you a little insight on guests requests. We are always happy to discuss this with you at any time!

Happy Planning and have a great wedding!